Ayahku Kawin Lagi...

Salaam...

Back to jammy KL life again. *sigh* Makes me appreaciate my hometown more and more. Cheeh! Ampeh nye aku ni! Never know that I am a homely type of person.

Question : What will you say or do or think IF your mom or your dad decided one day they wanna get married again (ni if one of your parents dah passed away la).

One of my friend was and is still in that situation right now. The father passed away few years back. And just recently the mother told her yang dia nak re-married. She is upset. VERY. Tambah lagik dia anak tunggal. Tak membantu sangat dlm situasi dia skrg. So I told her that nak tak nak dia kena accept it. I don't know whether she agrees with me or not. In this case, the mother is a career woman la, handling a big business.

Kesian plak ngan minah tu. Supposed to meet her up last weekend to discuss on this matter. Yalah. Jadik abang angkat ni kena la jaga adik bebetul. Jadik a shoulder to cry on. HA HA!! Tapi tak jumpa plak, sbb aku extend my stay kat Labuan.

Satu lagik story, back home. My auntie, well, my dad's cousin actually, have been a widow for almost 2 years kot? Then ada sorang duda ni berhasrat nak kawin ngan dia. BUT, the children, and also her siblings tak setuju, sampai ke tahap menghantar surat, with not-so-good words in it, accusing the duda of so many nonsenses.

I happened to meet that duda yesterday sebelum aku blah gi KL, coz looks like my dad is going to be the intermediator in this case (now I know where I got my trait). Looks decent enough. Bak kata my mom, apa le nak dibisingkan sangat? Orang tua tu just kesian kat my auntie, and wanna take care of her. And he wants her to take care of him, too. The wife pun baru jek passed away aku rasa? Aku pun tak paham kenapa my cousins and aunties and uncle tak setuju my auntie tu nak dikawinkan?! Mende bagus camni pun ada yg tak setuju?

Tu le persoalan aku lately ni. Kalau aku le dlm situasi ni, apa akan aku pikir, and apa akan aku ckp? Memang betul org cakap kan.. cakap tu senang, nak buat tu yang susah. Cam kes ni la, nak ckp kat orang tu soh terima jek mmg senang, tp cuba kalau kita sendiri dlm situasi ni, apa akan jadik?! What do you guys think? Kalau aku plak.. rationally, aku rasa aku akan terima jek kenyataan ni, but aku tatau whether my emotional side akan masuk campo ke tak?

Orang yang dah kawin dan beranak pun dah nak kawin lagik, aku ni bila ntah? hehehe....

Check out photos kat Labuan.. saje jek aku main2 kamera..