Relationship Dilemma : Infatuation vs Love
Salams..
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minggu ni aku nak citer pasal infatuation plak.. aku tak leh nak define per word untuk infatuation ni.. tapi yang aku paham lee.. infatuation ni perasaan suka yang amat sangat kat seseorang tu.. tapi tak mendatangkan perasaan cinta pun.. kira nya suka suka hangat2 taik ayam lee.. contoh paling senang.. cam aku minat ngan alizee lee.. infatuation lee tu!! sbb aku minat dia coz of.. muka dia yang cun dan body dia yang errr... hehehe...
most of the time... kita ni fall for a person coz of infatuation lee... sbb tu aku tak nah percaya love at the first sight.. ampeh nye terms!! camne ko bley nak fall in love with someone yang ko hardly know?? chemistry?? potong jari laa weeh!! chemistry tu kat kelas jeek..!! yang ada cuma infatuation jek.. sbb u fall over that person superficially.. based on merely physical things.. samada.. muka dia, jalan dia, senyum dia.. suara dia... and mende2 tu jek.. u don't even know hati budi dia camne.. sbb tu kalau nak on based on infatuation ni.. takkan ke mana.. and sbb tu lee relationship tu tak last pun...
selalunye.. yang suka ON a relationship solely based on infatuation ni.. mmg suka nak memain jek.. short term leee.. kira mmg tau relationship tu tak ke mana.. UNLESS... but this is very rarely lee.. UNLESS as time goes on.. they can really hook up.. and realizing that they really meant for each other.. POSSIBLE but RARE!! so kalau ada balak tu nak on sedangkan baru kenai 2 ari tu.. baik toksah lee.. paling besh tanye jek.. kenapa dia nak on.. and based on what?? unless kalau awek tu pun nak melayan ke'infatuation'an balak tu leee.. tuh lain citer lee.. jgn plak nanti bila dah kena dump baru nak menangis tak berlagu...
betui gak org ckp ek? Love ni make people do stupid and ridiculous stuff... cam entry lepas lee.. aku ckp.. sampai sanggup cakap on the phone berjam2.. then ujung bulan nanti.. bil tepon tu dah bley wat downpayment kete kelisa sebijik.. then tak dilupakan jugak sanggup duduk menunggu awek bersiap2 dan berkemas2.. walaupun berjam2..!! dan macam2 lee mende2 pelik2.. yang aku rasa korg sendiri pun tau.. buktinya.. bila dah putus nanti kan.. bila pikir balik kan.. you asked yourself.. why the hell did I do all that?? hehehe... ni selingan jek!!
so.. camne nak kenai infatuation tu?? sonang jek sebenonye.. ask yourself.. kalau ada org out of nowhere yang tak kenai asal usul latar belakang atas bawah kiri kanan pasal kita.. and tetiba jek ckp dia minat and fall head over heel kat kita.. what will you think?? of course flattered lee.. tapi tak ke pelik?? i mean.. camne lee org tu bley nak rasa camtu padahal bukan nye kenai pun lagik?? cam kete lee.. pernah tgk iklan Gen-2? kemain kan?? dengan nama nye.. ngan teknologi CAMPRO nyee.. ngan design yang kununnye menarik... alih2 terbakau sebijik depan Istana.. then lepas tu sume tak minat.. hehehe.. korang try lee connect2 sendiri camne tu.. lebey kurang camtu lee infatuation ni.. dia cam.. err... brand recognition lee.. cam tgk iklan dlm TV jeek.. nampak memenarikkan.. dan mengujakan... tp tak tentu lagi perasaan tu for real.. or merely just.. indah di mata jek??
tapi ada gak sstgh manusia ni suka ngan infatuation ni... sbb suka the attention given.. so layan jek lee.. selagi the fire is still burning kan.. so amik lee kesempatan sebyk yang boley.. cam.. mintak belanja itu ini.. ajak kuau sana sini... bila owang dah kenai kang.. tak kisah pun kena dump.. janji dapat apa yang nak out of nothing.. then lepas tu nanti.. balak tu plak tensen sbb realizing dah buat mistake.. sbb fall for someone yang dia tak minat actually.. tuh lee... sapa suruh gatai sangat nak berawek?? padan muka!! muahahah!! wuish.. jahat nyee aku!!
nak kenai infatuation senang.. but camne nak kenai love plak?? kalau tanya aku.. aku sendiri tak tau jawapannye.. sampai aku pernah cakap.. love ni tak nah exist... TAPI kalau ko ckp love is a collaboration of few feelings.. then aku bley definekan.. bagi aku.. love is about caring.. sharing.. feels like you wanna be with that someone all the time.. nak tau apa dia buat.. nak dengar cerita dia.. nak do things together... enjoy her/his company.. like to hear her/his stories.. BUT the most important things are.. able to accept her/his weaknesses, tolerate her/his behavior... and accept him/her as who they are!! without trying to change a bit.. not the way they dress, not the way they talk, not the way they walk!! and also accept what they do during free time.. as long as tak melanggar ajaran agama lee kan..
love can be anything... my advise.. jgn lee ikut love stories yang kat dalam TV, movies or dlm magazines sbg guideline nak bercinta.. nama pun cerita.. rekaan semata2.. altho derang sometimes ckp based on a true story.. but relive and love at a present time.. tanya perasaan sendiri.. jangan lee nak ikut2.. or terpengaruh ngan unsur2 luar bila bercinta.. kerana bila unsur2 tu dah died down inside us.. then we will realize actually we are not in love with our partner..
actually.. kalau nak dipikir2kan.. bercinta lepas kawin lagi besh... why? 1. bila dah kawin.. we know and understand we have our responsibilities to our partner.. and itu adalah yang dituntut.. and we have to do it.. altho ada unsur paksaan.. tp paksaan ke arah kebaikan.. which is good lee kan? 2. bercinta lepas kawin lagi mendatangkan hasil dan berbaloi.. because at least we know we will not wasting our time, money and effort to our partner.. 3. apa lagik yang menarik drpd learning about someone yang dah jadik bini/laki kita???
so sblm nak bercinta tu.. kenali diri sendiri.. cintai diri sendiri.. kalau tak mampu nak menyintai diri sendiri.. how do you expect to love others?? belajar dulu berkawan sblm belajar bercinta... sbb tu lee org ckp berkawan biar seribu.. berkasih biar sorang...!! kalau nak ikut sunnah nabi lagik besh.. awek yang gi pinang dia.. sorta speak lee.. sbb khadijah yang luahkan niat nak kawin ngan dia dulu.. hehehe... TAPI.. tgk lee Rasulallah s.a.w camne kan?? budipekerti camne? akhlak camne??
worait.. stop here.. time for lunch!! kalau aku tak sempat.. nak ucap Selamat Hari Raya Qurban kat sume.. apa pengorbanan tahun ni? and try to grab as much deeds as you can dlm 10 hari pertama dalam bulan Zulhijjah ni.. mudahan diberkati dan dirahmati Allah!!
salams...!!
have we ever ponder apakah pengorbanan kita selama ni? and adakah ia berbaloi??
okie lee.. aku besokan font kat entry aku kali ni.. sbb sume dok komplen sbb font kocik sangat.. ampeh.. lain kali gunakan kanta pembesar!!
minggu ni aku nak citer pasal infatuation plak.. aku tak leh nak define per word untuk infatuation ni.. tapi yang aku paham lee.. infatuation ni perasaan suka yang amat sangat kat seseorang tu.. tapi tak mendatangkan perasaan cinta pun.. kira nya suka suka hangat2 taik ayam lee.. contoh paling senang.. cam aku minat ngan alizee lee.. infatuation lee tu!! sbb aku minat dia coz of.. muka dia yang cun dan body dia yang errr... hehehe...
most of the time... kita ni fall for a person coz of infatuation lee... sbb tu aku tak nah percaya love at the first sight.. ampeh nye terms!! camne ko bley nak fall in love with someone yang ko hardly know?? chemistry?? potong jari laa weeh!! chemistry tu kat kelas jeek..!! yang ada cuma infatuation jek.. sbb u fall over that person superficially.. based on merely physical things.. samada.. muka dia, jalan dia, senyum dia.. suara dia... and mende2 tu jek.. u don't even know hati budi dia camne.. sbb tu kalau nak on based on infatuation ni.. takkan ke mana.. and sbb tu lee relationship tu tak last pun...
selalunye.. yang suka ON a relationship solely based on infatuation ni.. mmg suka nak memain jek.. short term leee.. kira mmg tau relationship tu tak ke mana.. UNLESS... but this is very rarely lee.. UNLESS as time goes on.. they can really hook up.. and realizing that they really meant for each other.. POSSIBLE but RARE!! so kalau ada balak tu nak on sedangkan baru kenai 2 ari tu.. baik toksah lee.. paling besh tanye jek.. kenapa dia nak on.. and based on what?? unless kalau awek tu pun nak melayan ke'infatuation'an balak tu leee.. tuh lain citer lee.. jgn plak nanti bila dah kena dump baru nak menangis tak berlagu...
betui gak org ckp ek? Love ni make people do stupid and ridiculous stuff... cam entry lepas lee.. aku ckp.. sampai sanggup cakap on the phone berjam2.. then ujung bulan nanti.. bil tepon tu dah bley wat downpayment kete kelisa sebijik.. then tak dilupakan jugak sanggup duduk menunggu awek bersiap2 dan berkemas2.. walaupun berjam2..!! dan macam2 lee mende2 pelik2.. yang aku rasa korg sendiri pun tau.. buktinya.. bila dah putus nanti kan.. bila pikir balik kan.. you asked yourself.. why the hell did I do all that?? hehehe... ni selingan jek!!
so.. camne nak kenai infatuation tu?? sonang jek sebenonye.. ask yourself.. kalau ada org out of nowhere yang tak kenai asal usul latar belakang atas bawah kiri kanan pasal kita.. and tetiba jek ckp dia minat and fall head over heel kat kita.. what will you think?? of course flattered lee.. tapi tak ke pelik?? i mean.. camne lee org tu bley nak rasa camtu padahal bukan nye kenai pun lagik?? cam kete lee.. pernah tgk iklan Gen-2? kemain kan?? dengan nama nye.. ngan teknologi CAMPRO nyee.. ngan design yang kununnye menarik... alih2 terbakau sebijik depan Istana.. then lepas tu sume tak minat.. hehehe.. korang try lee connect2 sendiri camne tu.. lebey kurang camtu lee infatuation ni.. dia cam.. err... brand recognition lee.. cam tgk iklan dlm TV jeek.. nampak memenarikkan.. dan mengujakan... tp tak tentu lagi perasaan tu for real.. or merely just.. indah di mata jek??
tapi ada gak sstgh manusia ni suka ngan infatuation ni... sbb suka the attention given.. so layan jek lee.. selagi the fire is still burning kan.. so amik lee kesempatan sebyk yang boley.. cam.. mintak belanja itu ini.. ajak kuau sana sini... bila owang dah kenai kang.. tak kisah pun kena dump.. janji dapat apa yang nak out of nothing.. then lepas tu nanti.. balak tu plak tensen sbb realizing dah buat mistake.. sbb fall for someone yang dia tak minat actually.. tuh lee... sapa suruh gatai sangat nak berawek?? padan muka!! muahahah!! wuish.. jahat nyee aku!!
nak kenai infatuation senang.. but camne nak kenai love plak?? kalau tanya aku.. aku sendiri tak tau jawapannye.. sampai aku pernah cakap.. love ni tak nah exist... TAPI kalau ko ckp love is a collaboration of few feelings.. then aku bley definekan.. bagi aku.. love is about caring.. sharing.. feels like you wanna be with that someone all the time.. nak tau apa dia buat.. nak dengar cerita dia.. nak do things together... enjoy her/his company.. like to hear her/his stories.. BUT the most important things are.. able to accept her/his weaknesses, tolerate her/his behavior... and accept him/her as who they are!! without trying to change a bit.. not the way they dress, not the way they talk, not the way they walk!! and also accept what they do during free time.. as long as tak melanggar ajaran agama lee kan..
love can be anything... my advise.. jgn lee ikut love stories yang kat dalam TV, movies or dlm magazines sbg guideline nak bercinta.. nama pun cerita.. rekaan semata2.. altho derang sometimes ckp based on a true story.. but relive and love at a present time.. tanya perasaan sendiri.. jangan lee nak ikut2.. or terpengaruh ngan unsur2 luar bila bercinta.. kerana bila unsur2 tu dah died down inside us.. then we will realize actually we are not in love with our partner..
actually.. kalau nak dipikir2kan.. bercinta lepas kawin lagi besh... why? 1. bila dah kawin.. we know and understand we have our responsibilities to our partner.. and itu adalah yang dituntut.. and we have to do it.. altho ada unsur paksaan.. tp paksaan ke arah kebaikan.. which is good lee kan? 2. bercinta lepas kawin lagi mendatangkan hasil dan berbaloi.. because at least we know we will not wasting our time, money and effort to our partner.. 3. apa lagik yang menarik drpd learning about someone yang dah jadik bini/laki kita???
so sblm nak bercinta tu.. kenali diri sendiri.. cintai diri sendiri.. kalau tak mampu nak menyintai diri sendiri.. how do you expect to love others?? belajar dulu berkawan sblm belajar bercinta... sbb tu lee org ckp berkawan biar seribu.. berkasih biar sorang...!! kalau nak ikut sunnah nabi lagik besh.. awek yang gi pinang dia.. sorta speak lee.. sbb khadijah yang luahkan niat nak kawin ngan dia dulu.. hehehe... TAPI.. tgk lee Rasulallah s.a.w camne kan?? budipekerti camne? akhlak camne??
worait.. stop here.. time for lunch!! kalau aku tak sempat.. nak ucap Selamat Hari Raya Qurban kat sume.. apa pengorbanan tahun ni? and try to grab as much deeds as you can dlm 10 hari pertama dalam bulan Zulhijjah ni.. mudahan diberkati dan dirahmati Allah!!
salams...!!
have we ever ponder apakah pengorbanan kita selama ni? and adakah ia berbaloi??
posted by Unknown at 1:50 AM
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